As we head into the wedding season, our weekends are brimming with emotional speeches and fizz-filled antics. Most of our loved ones opt to celebrate their nuptials on days many already have off work. Now and again, we will be treated to a mid-week celebration, which breaks up our working week nicely!
Weddings on Wednesdays are not only superstitiously the best day to get married on, but they are also easier on the wedding budget. Which makes us question, why aren’t they more popular?
Before you book your weekend celebrations, let us show you some benefits of how a Wednesday wedding could be the perfect start to wedded bliss…
Easier on the Wedding Budget
The majority of all wedding-related services and products are cheaper during the week. Venues have better priced packages, the DJ will be twiddling their thumbs, and that band you’ve wanted to book for ages, they will probably offer a great week’s deal as well.
Family and friends will also thank you, as hotels in the local area will be a lot cheaper. This means they can spend more on their outfit for your big day.
You can save so much money when booking a mid-week wedding, freeing up a huge portion of your budget. With these extra funds, this will allow you the flexibility to put your wedding budget towards the delicate, more meaningful details that add that all important personal touch. From personalised decor to bespoke floral arrangements, create a treasured celebration.
Honeymoons Can Be a Little More Luxurious
Wedding planning can really take it out of you, which makes the honeymoon so important to newlyweds. Some time to reflect on your special day and enjoy each other as a couple.
The extra money you save can go towards a more luxurious honeymoon. Whether it’s somewhere secluded and tropical with cocktails in hand, an activity filled honeymoon or an exploratory adventure, the perfect honeymoon is waiting to be booked.
With the wedding being midweek, this could lead to a honeymoon straight after, which begins and ends midweek too. These packages and flights can also be discounted, so you can go somewhere more extravagant.
Your Chosen Vendors
Competition for your chosen entertainment, the most popular florists, local registrars and even minor details like hiring of cake stands can be reduced significantly during the week.
The majority of the most sought-after wedding vendors will be booked early during the weekends, meaning some couples end up settling for second best. Some even have to postpone their wedding to suit timings and availability.
Weekend weddings can also be chaotic for vendors, as your wedding may not be the only one they have booked that day, so they are juggling multiple projects. This can sometimes mean tighter schedules, timelines and divided attention, which can make the day feel rushed. In contrast, choosing a weekday can allow them time to focus solely on your celebration. With fewer competing commitments, they can offer a more thoughtful service, an all-around more relaxed feel for you and your guests.
Celebrate on a Special Day
As we can’t control the calendar, those special days that are significant to a couple, such as anniversaries, holidays and birthdays, don’t always land on a weekend. Rather than being restricted by tradition or timing, being open to a mid-week wedding gives you the freedom to hold your nuptials on a date that truly matters to you.
Choosing a personally significant day adds an extra layer of meaning and intimacy to your celebration, making your wedding even more unique and memorable. It’s such a wonderful way to add a personal touch to your big day.
Superstition Says So
According to superstition and some religions, weekday weddings are luckier than those on a weekend.
In the book of Genesis, it is referenced that God saw the third day as good, which many Jewish couples recognise as Tuesday (being the 3rd day) as twice as lucky for a wedding to take place.
Today, weddings are filled with traditional and superstitious symbolic gestures. From the throwing of confetti and gifts to the bride being carried over the threshold.
According to a Celtic Folk Rhyme, Monday, Tuesday, and Wednesday offer a more promising start to your marriage:
“Monday for wealth, Tuesday for health, Wednesday is the best day of all, Thursday for losses, Friday for crosses, and Saturday no luck at all.”
So, if you are a superstitious couple, this may affect the day that you decide to get married, so a midweek wedding might be for you!
Everyone Gets a Couple of Days Off Work
Weekends are generally seen as the better days for weddings, as it’s when the majority of guests will be off work.
Weekday weddings are perfect for more intimate affairs, as close friends and family wouldn’t think twice about taking some time off to celebrate with you. They are also a great idea for those whose work schedules aren’t structured around weekends.
For bigger parties, asking loved ones to take time off during the week can actually be a welcome change. It offers a refreshing break to the working week and adds something a little different to their general Monday to Friday routines. And what better alternative to the office than a day to celebrate your love? After all, when has taking a day off been a bad thing?
No matter what…
No matter what, the most important thing is to book a day that suits you as a couple. There are so many things to take into account, and we are more than happy to help you come to a decision that works to make your day truly unforgettable.
If you have picked a wedding date, or are yet to decide, get in touch with our team on 0808 109 3541 or email at [email protected], and we can make sure you’re getting the best with your available budget.
Have you considered Seckford Hall?
Looking for a traditional and historical venue set against the Suffolk countryside? Whatever style of wedding celebration you choose, our experienced team will be happy to work closely with you and organise every detail so you can relax and enjoy your special day. Let us take you on an enchanting tour of our estate.
FAQs
- Do you have any other offers?
We offer many other special offers for weddings, including seasonal and last minute weddings. Find out more.
- Can we book Seckford Hall for exclusive use?
Yes, you can take over the entire hotel, including all 41 bedrooms and 34 acres of stunning grounds, exclusively.
- Is Seckford Hall licensed for a ceremony?
Yes, Seckford Hall is licensed for both indoor and outdoor ceremonies.
For more frequently asked questions, visit our FAQs page.
